Let me just state for the record: being pregnant and having a toddler is hard. More like HARD. More like I-am-not-sure-how-I-am-still-alive-right-now-HARD. And I know I am not alone in this sentiment. There have been many mothers before me and will be many after who lovingly and graciously endure this season of life. They drag themselves out of pregnant-comasleep to the sounds of am 18 month old ripping off her diaper and smearing its contents all over her crib at 2am. They look in the mirror and laughed as they carry a 20 month old in one arm, her babydoll collection…