Today is my birthday. Every year on my birthday, I take the day off work to reflect on what has gone wrong during the past year and what I can do to make it better. After some contemplation, I then resolve to make this next year my year. It’s a term we millennials use to say that we are going to do something that resembles living our best lives now during the next 365 days. When I say it, it means I am going to find a way to stop feeling like I’m trudging through life, and feel like my steps…